Life has three major stages: Childhood, adulthood, elderhood.
- When aging adults are polled about their preferences among the words for old age (senior, old, elderly, geriatrics) results showed that no one liked any of them.
- The problem is not with the word old, it is how we think about old age.
- Elderhood has the challenge of being a stage which ends in death, but far more important than our deaths is the quality of the living that proceeds them.
- We know we can influence the human quality of life & lifespans. In shaping our experience of elderhood, when we live matter as much as where.
- In the United States in the 1900 the average age of death was 49 and now it is 79. Today the wealthiest, higher income Americans live 10-20 years longer than poor Americans. There is a 50 year difference in lifespan between the people of Botswana and those of Japan.
- Old age is generally viewed as beginning between ages 60 and 70. Living into elderhood gives us more years to enjoy life and to contribute to the world.
- Medicine is not objective or impartial, it is a microcosm of societal blind spots and biases.
- The CDC recommends 17 vaccine schedules for birth to age 18, and three or four adults between 19 and 64, but in 2020 still only recommends one schedule for all those over 65.
- Medical schools devote months to pediatrics, years to adult medicine, but at best just weeks to geriatrics.
- Medical research also displays disparities: in 1986 the NIH mandated studies include women and minorities, because when treated based off research that excluded them because they were different, they reacted differently to the treatment. In 1998 they mandated children be included for the same reasons. Inclusions of elders did not occur until 2019.
Elderhood is different than childhood or adulthood. Often we blame old age for problems we have created or neglected but we need to apply to it the same care and creativity that we already apply to childhood and adulthood. When we are in elderhood we do not want to be met with self defeating stereotypes and needless limitations. We want what we have always wanted: opportunities, a society that recognizes our unique strengths and a culture that responds to our limitations with creativity and innovation. Like people of all backgrounds and ages, we want equity in language, healthcare, parks, home design and everything else.